When God Writes Your Love Story | Christian Relationship | Emotional

it was like a voice that just spoke and said she’s going to be your wife i was watching my wife who didn’t even know me fall for me over time and so god didn’t tell me anything so i didn’t see him as a potential boyfriend or husband at all i wanted to avoid him as much as possible and i believe that god can write your story hey everyone and welcome to my channel my name is hunter and today i have my wife georgia joining me for a special video today we’re going to talk about a little bit about our story i wanted to for a couple reasons i feel like i feel like god really truly wrote our love story i feel like it was written by the hand of god i uh you know even to this day we talk to people about our love story we talk to you about how god brought us together and people even since the beginning have just been shocked they’ve been inspired they’ve been encouraged and so i wanted to make this one to hopefully encourage some people out there that are either looking for the one waiting for the one maybe think you found the one or you just enjoy a good story i know i personally um i’ve started to watch some people’s videos on how god wrote their love story and i’ve thoroughly enjoyed that i think we’re wired that way as humans to just enjoy people’s stories but um anyway so i we want to share our story with you guys today i think our story is super awesome in many ways because number one we come from two totally different backgrounds and lifestyles um in two different countries right georgia’s from brazil and she’ll say a little bit more about that in a minute um and i’m obviously here from the states and we just lived two totally different lifestyles but god brought us together for a purpose and i think it’s turned out okay but uh anyway so without further ado um let’s get into it let’s get into it also real quick um if you enjoyed this video guys please hit the like button subscribe to the channel turn on the notification bell below and uh yeah leave us a comment so before we get into the full details of our story of how we met and just kind of how god developed that relationship i want to just give a little bit of background for those of you that may not know us and just kind of who we were and what how you know god led us to each other so hi guys i’m from brazil as hunter mentioned before and i was born and raised in brazil so i came to america when i was about 17 to go to college cf and i that’s where we met you’re going to hear about it uh but before cf and i um i grew up in a christian home amazing parents amazing family i always always have the feel of dating as just a very serious thing i was not the type of girl would sleep around or just give myself thankfully to the to god and my parents my mom she taught me really well on how to preserve myself and just just value myself i would say and i had a boyfriend before um we did it for about two years and just long story short god told me to break up with this boyfriend i was only 14 when that happened and no i was 14 when i started dating him and 16 when we broke up and it was just the most hard decision as a young girl but also the best decision i have made [Laughter] yes so by the way if i had never broke up with him i would probably not want to come to america to study here so it worked out really well probably from what i remember you telling me like it kind of was holding you back from going anyway right yeah yeah yeah because i mean i didn’t want to leave him uh you know kind of like things that young girls would do crazy stories for love but it worked out it was a crazy story how god told me to break up with him there was nothing wrong going on we would not sleep around we were cert we were just having a really good relationship just like as much as it can be yes um so but god did it and i respected and i responded and it was just so worth it um so my story i feel like is total opposite of hers i you know i i grew up in the bible belt in in texas right and so we were kind of always christians and you know i have good parents but i lived in a broken home and so from that i already started with a bad view of relationships and understanding of marriage and pretty much everyone in my family every every friday i can only remember even one friend my whole childhood that had parents that actually were married and together and so um just my view and understanding of relationships and all that was just tainted my view my perspective on relationships and love and marriage and dating all came from the world it all came from you know what i saw on tv mtv it was the music videos it was you know the reality shows it was you know these this kind of stuff online and on tv it’s kind of how i form my view on relationships and so you know i started down that road you know from an early age um just seeking you know pleasure from from from women you know using them manipulating them um you know i just became a liar a master liar to get my way to get my field my satisfaction and i was the kind of player type you know i wasn’t like you know the player of all players or anything like that but i wasn’t your typical teenage player guy and you know not a faithful guy i got into a relationship you know when i was um if you don’t know my testimony i lived in in the world i was i was a party guy i was the life of the party i lived that life with anyone i got in a relationship and um you know we did it not god’s way and um eventually i got wrecked by jesus right before my 18th birthday and that was one of the first things that he put his finger on in my life was to surrender that relationship kind of the same as georgia except his was was showing me you’re doing it wrong you’re hurting yourself you’re hurting this girl you’re hurting your testimony for me and so i’m calling you to surrender and so kind of like her it was the hardest thing in my life that i had done up to that point right it’s hard it’s a hard thing to do as a young person to surrender a relationship to god um you know especially when you could see a possible future with someone but i did it and you know right after that i jumped into another relationship uh because i was young and i was still just trying to satisfy something in me that clearly couldn’t be satisfied um in another person and it never will be but i jumped into that i wasn’t ready there was no peace god’s blessing wasn’t on it and it just ended up being a mess and you know we struggled with temptation and um and i just was not the man of god i needed to be for her at the time it just became a wreck and anyway that got stripped away and i remember after that i prayed a prayer to god and i said god i don’t i don’t want to date again um my heart’s been broken i was in a two and a half year relationship uh then i just was in this one for almost a year and uh i just can’t take the heartbreak i can’t take the frustration and so i made it i prayed to god i said god i kind of made a vow and i said lord um you know i don’t want to date you know i’m not someone going out on dates because i went out on some days right if i’m being honest but uh yeah of course i did but you know the truth is i i was i honored that commitment and and and god did too and i said god i don’t want to you know date be with someone pursue someone unless i know beforehand and i’m going to marry them and i’m not saying everyone should pray that kind of prayer but i did and um it’s a worth it pray it is a worth it prayer it is a worth of prayer um but you have to keep walking with the lord and be you know listening to his voice and submitting to his will and his way so um that’s kind of it um you know at that time she moves to cfni right which is a is a bible college in dallas texas which is where i’m from um god calls me to ministry i give up at that time i was a division one football commit and i was going to play and god changed my whole plans and anyway so i ended up going into ministry and i was there about a semester after her and so kind of share your perspective on um i don’t know i guess it’s good to say to a different perspective because you’re going to see that if they’re totally different it’s so funny how uh one person can see one i know yes it’s it’s totally different and um so i got to steph and i in 2015 january schools in brazil starts in january so that’s why i began in january at cfni and um just trying to adapt to a whole new country trying to learn the language i was not fluent so trying do so much at the same time um so it was just a very i was trying to be focused in school and just try to yes just adapt to a new environment everything a new culture and um yeah i was there for a semester and then second semester comes by hunter comes in it was a big deal in the school this tall blonde kid whatever yeah so everyone would talk about hunter and i mean who cares right she’s not an easily impressed person which was part of the problem yeah and then um yes so she was the man of god of the school the evangelist and i remember everyone would be like oh my gosh who’s this guy and i i remember um see i actually don’t remember seeing you this first time they remember seeing me right so the the first time that i remember seeing you is so the first time we yeah so this is kind of cool the first time so she doesn’t remember which kind of hurts um she doesn’t remember the first time we met it was actually because she was man she was i just that’s what i loved about her she was so focused on the lord but we met it was like a 5 30 a.m prayer meeting and we went to a breakfast before and a friend of mine just introduced but it just was a casual thing yeah it was not like a hookup it’s just like hey this is my friend here this is my friend my friend georgia and i met her then but even then it was just kind of like oh hi yeah yeah i barely even remembered yeah um but but then the a couple of days roll around so to back up a little bit my best friend before i got to see if an eye jonathan he he told me he said bro i had a dream last night that you met your wife at cfni and this was like a week before i went to go move in and i was like whoa like that’s kind of crazy like you know okay cool and you know at that time though i was kind of just still trying to focus on the lord and keep my heart on jesus i wasn’t worried about that but you know i get to see f and i and if i’m being honest i start every godly girl that i have a conversation with or i see across the room and i’m just like okay jesus is that hers and uh you know it was i was not a player i was not trying to you know mess around with any of them or get their numbers i just was curious like okay god who is it and so i would always bring it to him in prayer and just like i don’t think that’s it i don’t think that’s it and then um so we met and the the next encounter that i remember and i think it was probably your first or second encounter was do you remember what it was it was it uh on the when you were walking uh-huh so so the the the second time which was kind of my second time or third time and it was kind of your first or second time um i think you just passed by me briefly before that but i was walking to the gym so listen to this guys and this actually will end up playing a big part in our story but i was walking to the gym after i had just i just if i’m being honest with you i just watched porn i fell into porn i was struggling with it and i was walking to the gym just kind of in shame and this girl walks out at the same time and she says something and so yeah tell the story yeah and it was with the most pure heart i wasn’t trying to hit on him or anything as he was coming out uh he was walking and was going out of my dorm so basically he was walking as i was coming out of my door i saw him and god gave me a word for hunting i don’t fully remember a hundred percent of what the word was but i remember he had to do something with oh you say it then she said um and she had so like her english was so broken back then and she just said um i just i just felt like god told me to tell you that um he’s purifying your heart for a really big ministry and um and uh yeah to me it was crazy because i had just slipped up i was this young kid on fire for god i wanted to go change the world for jesus but i was struggling right like a lot of people i was struggling with pornography and i walked by and she gives me that word with the pure heart and um that was that was a huge blessing yeah yeah and a big turn on uh it makes me emotional okay so um so that was kind of one of our so after that we kind of just walked real quick i just learned her age i learned her name i think where you were from did we talk about it you told me you were 17 and i was like wow you’re 17 like how are you even in college because i was 19 at the time and anyway it was just real brief like that there was no i didn’t even have any motives again i thought she was beautiful but there was not like anything i thought too he probably was just walking in shame at that moment yeah like i was not even i was probably just consumed with what she just said and what i did anyway so um that was kind of that real first encounter yeah and then um i think we just kind of um after that it was just kind of nothing until one day this is kind of when it all started though and that’s your side of the story though yeah okay so go first yeah so kind of what happens this is when it starts all really starting for me so the reason i’m i’m kind of sharing more here is because um i kind of had more of a background in all this like this was the the law the length of this story started with me and god a long time ago and she kind of just submitted to it eventually but um so basically what happened is so we had that counter just i kind of knew her that was kind of it um i still have my eyes on some other girls and um but one day a friend of mine him and i we had went out before a class time to downtown dallas and we just were praying for people and sharing the gospel and we were arriving back and we were rushing we’re kind of we’re a little bit late and this girl comes walking across the street of course she was the only one because she’s like to everything yeah that’s so great she’s like everything if we ever make plans uh with you just know if we’re late um it’s because of her sorry oh that’s just like i’m sorry because i’m gonna keep doing it but um so that was it and so we were pulling up and she comes walking by in this beautiful colored dress and i remember it was just as clear as it is right now like i just felt this it was like a voice that just spoke and said she’s gonna be your wife and i remember i looked to my friend and i’m just like i’m gonna marry that girl and again there was nothing really prior to that other than just oh i thought she was cute that was it but she walks by and the holy spirit i feel like spoke to my heart and said you’re going to marry her and from that moment on i was like oh my gosh i i believe it i was so close with the lord and i just knew i knew his voice like you know when you know when you know his voice and the lord said that she was going to be the one and so that kind of just started this crazy process for me all the while she had no idea but what would begin to happen is i would start to pray about it i brought it before the lord and god just even the first night i mean gave me a dream about it about us like getting married about us flying in a plane together um the next day i had someone like basically say like hey like you have your eyes on anybody like oh are they brazilian like it was the craziest question like who would even ask something like that and he started poking and prying and kind of pointing to her like what like how would you even know that really yeah and my best friend i had another dream my mom had a dream describing what she looked like like we all started having all these crazy confirmations about this girl becoming my wife again all the while she was absolutely clueless to it all um and so what would happen is i just kept praying i just kept fasting i just kept seeking the lord and so um i just brought it before god and he just kept confirming it over and over and over and i just kept going after her and i would just find little places here and there to try to connect with her i just was doing my best my car i remember i had a problem with my car he was like i can’t help but you fix it and here’s the i knew i knew absolutely nothing i was googling before every time i could tell he didn’t know i was like why these guys don’t help you i would like come up with like lame excuses like hey i have some international friends that need to go get groceries like can you help them can you take them can you translate or i’ll just come up with all these different crazy excuses that’s me about like music brazilian music brazilian music trying to speak portuguese or whatever just all these different things i was trying to get her attention because what the lord had told me to do was you know yes she’s your bride she’s your wife to be but you need to focus on friendship because i’m preparing you and i’m preparing her and you don’t want to rush into this and so but you know all the while i was still trying to get into her heart a little bit and god was so cool i mean i could go i could write a book on just all the little ways that he gave us opportunities to connect and things like that but um god began to just do that and i just began to fall more in love with her i just would just sit here all the time and i i was not i didn’t stalk her by any means but i became so passionate about just just i don’t know everything i just was always paying attention to her always trying to just go i would even pray like god like is she gonna be there today and i would just like i would try to take a chance and she’d be there she’d be at the gym or she’d be at the library or whatever and i just would kind of like by faith go to these places hoping to see her and um it was just awesome uh the process me and god um you know it was a long process it was something that uh about a year in the end took close to a year um however what had happened though was i thought after all the cars and i was kind of spending a little bit of time together i thought maybe she was actually starting to like me as well and so i kind of started to up my pursuit and all the while she was seeing something totally different and so share a little bit about that yeah and it kind of makes me want to cry when he talks about everything he has done for a relationship in other side of the story everything was really different for me because i really didn’t see him anything besides a friend so as he started uh after that prayer that i prayed over him or whatever and the god told him that we’re going to be together for me nothing changed i was still focused on my life my own thing my school with god not god didn’t tell me anything so i didn’t see him as a potential boyfriend or husband at all that was not your type right no no because i came from brazil so she liked ugly guys should be honest with you i i’m not used to i wasn’t usually with white guys i was usually brazilian guys so um i would see a nice person coming to me every now and then and just trying to uh make a relationship just maybe be friends he would try to help me with my car which i really appreciated because i didn’t have anyone to do it besides me so that was nice that he helped me with my car at some point um and then it started getting a little annoying though because he would text me and say hey can you take me to walmart and i was like what is guys doing i don’t want to take him to walmart so it kind of started getting a little annoyed because he would ask he would make excuses to do things together and i’m just like why and um got to the point where it was getting too much in effect of like everywhere i go he would come talk to me and then people in school were actually starting to talk about we were together and that’s when it got me angry i was angry because people would come to me and say oh what about hunter and i’m like we don’t have anything and i remember a day that i don’t remember who did it but they said oh i remember now um she said a girl came to me and said and you and hunter are you guys dating what’s going on and i just got angry with her a little bit i was like why you’re saying that i you don’t even know me and you don’t even know we’re not together and then i said no we have never been together why and then that’s when i was like why everyone in school is saying something i guess it’s just because everyone could see that he was always looking at me maybe or observing me so it started getting me annoyed you know on a point where whenever uh i wanted to go eat a cafeteria i would call my sister and ask my sister if honey was there because i didn’t i wanted to avoid him as much as possible so if he was the cafeteria i would get it to go or i would ask my sister to break the rules and get me to go but i was trying to to avoid him because i felt like she was running from the will of god like jonah and the whale he was running and god got a hold of her yeah i guess uh i did not hear anything from god back then so i do not take responsibilities um until i got to a point where i felt like i needed to have a conversation with him and explain that maybe he thinks i’m just friendly yes because you were just like a sweet person some of the signals wrong plus culture we come from i come from brazil a very warm culture so i thought maybe he’s confusing me being nice to him than liking plus hunter i mean grew up as a football player so he was probably used to have a lot of girls coming after him so he probably didn’t understand what it is a girl knock wanting him maybe yeah so and plus everyone in this school loved him so he was the most wanted guy let’s see so one day i decided that i had sit down with hannah just let him know hey i really don’t like you more than just friends so um i saw him at cafeteria and he was obviously trying to be around me and trying to make conversations and i was just like that’s a great time to talk because i mean we’re here and i’m sitting down eating so i said hey hunter can i speak to you my english was still very broken back then so with the little english that i knew i just said i don’t know if you understand me but we’re just friends and i totally friend zoned him not trying to just friends on him too for him to keep coming after me really like just hey we are just friends and i remember seeing tears coming out of his eyes that was kind of like heartbroken but at least i got my word out and i told him i was honest to him because i felt like if i didn’t tell him i was playing with his heart because at that point i knew he liked me so i really needed to say that to him so after i said that to him in my mind i said i was like okay now he knows now we can actually be friends and actually it felt liberating to me to be able just to say hey we’re just friends uh so yeah so but so when she said that to me like my heart broke because here i am i mean i’ve been contending and praying for this and believing for this for a while and i thought i was seeing some breakthrough i thought okay god you’re finally bringing it to pass and she says that and i’m just like broken i remember i had a friend there that day and we just sat in my truck and talked and cried and i went back to my room that night and i just began to pray and it was like god gave me this like it was like a vision it was crazy and this this picture of like we were both sitting down across from each other but we had a like a mirror in between us and i could see her but she couldn’t see me and she was putting on makeup and getting ready for something for some like big day and the lord showed me in the picture so like when she had finished doing her makeup and she sat it down right the mirror dropped between us and she could then see me and from that i felt like he told me when she’s ready she’ll see you and so i realized you know god still had some preparation to do in me and in her and so um i just was more patient i continued to pursue a friendship long story short the lord opened up that door one day because we had just become friends we’d start to hang out a little bit and we went bowling with some friends yes because there was a girl and i’m sure she was very used by god she was my roommate my friend a brazilian friend she really wanted me up with hunter like so much so she made plans with the boys to go bowling and we were both bored in the room we didn’t have anything to do and they were actually going to the movies and i said no come here let the boys go to the movies let’s go bowling us too so i remember she texting david and saying she wants to go bowling so we all changed the plans and so we we went bowling and um we just went in it was like in that place i just like i i was just seeing her more and more for who she really was and i remember that day i was like okay i’m gonna i’m gonna take a chance and uh people had kind of like stepped away to the bathroom or something like that and i kind of just pulled her to the side and i just want to talk to her i was like hey listen you know um i know you know you don’t like like me like that and i’m not trying to mean anything other than what i’m about to say um but i just wanted you to know that i think you’re you’re absolutely beautiful your heart um and and i just kind of i don’t even remember exactly what i said i just told her how how beautiful i thought she was and how much i loved that she honored the lord and she valued herself and that she was guarding her heart i thought i thought it was beautiful and um i think in that moment she said that that kind of broke some things down so let me tell my story on that so we had a lot of fun that night um bowling and he pushed me aside i remember what dress i was wearing i was wearing a red dress and um he told me something that really touched my heart that day and that was something that i was just speaking with my spiritual father in the morning i uh pastor mike monsta i told pastor mcmaster that whenever i date a boy i want him to think that i’m beautiful for who i am inside not only for my exterior that was something that i literally just talked in the morning and hannah pushed me aside and he was i could tell he was really nervous and that was cute and he was kind of like shaky and um he said all those things but i the only thing that i really remember is saying that that how beautiful i am for who i am inside that was a very a moment on your time for me because that’s when i was like wow um he is a good guy and i just started seeing things on him in a different way so that was for me the moment where i realized that hunter was a potential something for me that was what almost a year after we met or yeah it was it was probably exactly it was oh it was it was like nine months yes yes so so so that happens and um again we that allows us to just kind of be more friends and we start to hang out a little bit and start to soften up to me and you know i’m still guarding my heart i’m still trying to be as patient as i can be in the process i mean i can’t even tell you all that was happening i mean god was doing so much in that time but um he just was making it more and more obvious and i just was falling so in love with her um and she she wasn’t even like the crazy thing about our relationship is that i was in love with her because i had already knew that she was going to be my wife for a long time meanwhile she barely even knew who i was or anything about me and um i just was getting to watch her and it was like i was watching my wife live out her life i was watching my wife who didn’t even know me fall for me over time and so it was a it was a really fun time um just watching god work in her and slowly open her eyes and bring her to me and so we get to a point one day when i feel like you know we kind of we’re starting to get not serious but we were getting close to i felt like dating yeah and i remember um we went to hang out i think uh i think i took you to my city or something like that where i was from and went to the lake and we were just talking kind of little deeper talks and just talking about you know do you want a perfect man or do you just want do you want a man that you can walk out a process with a man that you can grow with that just like you know i’m not perfect and long story short i set her down that night and that was the first time i exposed to her my pornography struggles it was not something i was doing like on a daily basis but it was like you know every other week or something like that i would fall into it i just felt like it was right to tell her and that kind of started everything i felt like we had kind of built it kind of put a big stop in between everything that we had already started to build and i remember we kind of rode the whole way home in silence that night she wasn’t judging me or anything like that i just was shocked i grew up in a very shelter home and that was far away from something i ever struggled or knew someone that did i for me being so sheltered i just never knew there was a thing to be honest with you i know that may sound stupid to you because pornography i know now it’s so huge but i just never knew it was a thing so i was quite shocked i know i wasn’t judging you maybe i was because i was shocked but i just yeah they weren’t shocked yeah shocked and so basically what happened there is um i remember you know so that was exposed and then um you know a couple weeks away later i exposed some more like i was still struggling with lust and things like that and remember we sat down with my spiritual father and she was at a point where like because we were getting close to dating she’s like i don’t want to set myself up for this like i don’t want to enter a relationship with someone like that’s not because she was being hard but she’s like i don’t want to set myself up to be cheated on or be hurt and i wasn’t scared you know as you should be to give your heart to someone right yeah and so we sat down i remember it was an emergency because you’re like i can’t do this and like you were like getting ready to go back to brazil or whatever and i’m like i gotta get this girl before she goes back so we call it my spiritual father dean g in that moment’s like man please meet with us i remember him just talking with her and we basically decided in that moment to sum it all up that she was gonna go back to brazil that summer and just take time and pray about it yeah and and for me to keep praying about it too and he said yes i remember him saying it was a tough word for me to hear he said if and that was after she left he said son if she’s the one it’ll it’ll work you know despite your issues despite your struggles it’s going to work just hold on to faith and he told her as a father he was like yeah i don’t think he you’re i don’t think he deserves you right now and so she went back to brazil and that summer it was just me and jesus and i was hurt i was broken um but that was the summer i i resolved that i was gonna get free because i wanted her and i wanted god’s promise in my life and so i spent the whole summer just believing and that summer god set me free enough not once that was uh five six years ago now and i’ve been completely free from it um anyway i so if you are struggling with pornography know that it’s possible to be free because he was free and my husband is a free man and yeah if you are a girl and you’re watching this and your partner is struggling with this it is possible all he needs to do is he wants he needs to want it at first but he needs god yeah absolutely and so um we want to share more about our dating experience because what happened is she went back to brazil had this kind of moment i mean while god was working on me and we did not talk at all we didn’t talk when i was in brazil i told him i said i’m sorry i need a break i didn’t i don’t want to talk so we didn’t talk at all in brazil and i remember every now and then he was sending me such a sad message like he i i could tell he was very heartbreaking broken but it was a very necessary time because i feel like if i probably if i had treated like he was okay maybe he would not have had this wake-up call maybe yeah so so what happens is she ends up coming back that next semester and within a few days um i sit her down at the park at our school and i tell her everything i tell her everything that god had showed me about her uh do you remember that that was a powerful moment i don’t remember maybe when you started talking i sat you down at the park and and i just began telling her everything god showed me that you were going to be my wife here’s what he showed me here’s the dreams here’s the confirmations here’s the visions here’s everything that he’s shown me and and i told her that night i said i just want you to know that i love you and i have loved you for a while and um that night something shifted and so we’re gonna do another video soon talking about our dating uh talking about things we learned from our dating process we had a lot of ups a lot of downs we did a lot of things right uh we’re gonna talk about boundaries we’re gonna talk about um you know just our my struggles our struggles all these different things and we’re going to share our successes and our failures and hopefully it will encourage you as well so so stay tuned um we’re going to do two part and i want to make sure so stay tuned we’re going to do that second part and i know it’s going to be an encouragement to you guys but um i hope that you were able to be just a little bit inspired from from what god has done a crazy love story it’s crazy i mean how in the world two different worlds to come together that’s a god thing because god wrote our story there’s no other way besides god or whatever you’re saying put it in his hands if you trust him if you don’t rush the timing if you just if you just pray and you fast and you believe and you bring everything to the lord i believe he can write your love story as well don’t be in a rush there’s someone for you listen if you have the desire to get married to be with someone there is someone for you i you don’t necessarily have to believe in the one but there is someone out there that god has has placed and designed amen for you to be with so guys hold on keep believing keep trusting true love is available true love exists and um we will see you guys in the next video yes thanks for watching love you guys bye i think it’s right