What guys need in a relationship! | Relationship advice from Christian Guys

didn’t want to get you know too saucy [Music] everyone welcome back to the channel it is so good to see you guys I hope you are having a wonderful day I’m very excited to talk about today’s topic and that is five needs in a relationship that many guys have that women don’t often notice it’s easy to agree that men and women are very different and the needs of men and the needs of women are very different in romantic relationships and so today I’m gonna invite a couple of my friends here share with you guys maybe some needs that you may not realize that guys have but it would be helpful to have in a relationship of course if you haven’t yet go ahead and check out their channels I’ll link all of them in the description bar below and subscribe to them because they make some awesome content than I really enjoy but anyways let’s get started what are some days that most guys have in a relationship that oftentimes women may not know about I actually think that women should know that guys need space or a man time we need some time to go and be idiots I would say to wives give your husband that opportunity to miss you let him go out and you know mess up his knees playing soccer or play some golf or whatever it is but give him that opportunity to miss you man just want to be respected I know this from getting married like I want to know that my wife respects me we want her to admire us we want her to look up to us I’m supposed to the Bible calls us to have different roles I’m supposed to be treating her as it is a delicate vase treating her in love and laying down my life and then she is called to respect her man who think one of the most amazing thing to us guys when the woman that we cheer board genuinely support us we want her to believe in us we want her to support our dreams and our goals even if other people around us do not we stand by us with our dreams and goals and say hey that is not a good idea this way I’m not saying you should always have the perfect advice but just having someone to listen to goes above and beyond so much know why don’t we like to be matching when we don’t need so if you are a woman you’re a wise woman you will create the type of environment in your relationship where your man feels comfortable sharing with you his deepest secrets his deepest failures his flaws even his insecurities they need to know that when they get home from work or when they get home from school and that day didn’t go just right they need someone at home to encourage them and tell them it’s okay you did the best you can and I love you anyway just encourage your man in his faith in God because yo we’re called to lead we’re called to encourage our women and to help them in their walk but like we need it too so whenever my wife is like you know shoot me a Bible verse you’re saying I’m praying for you or like Paul you got this your remain of God that builds me up that’s awesome well there you go before I jump in with my thoughts be sure to let us know in the comment section below what you would add to this conversation what needs do guys have in your experience that many women don’t realize or understand share your thoughts in the comment section below but as for me one of the things that I find valuable in our relationship between me and Emily is you know when Emily actually helps me feel useful in a relationship many guys certainly not all guys but many guys do feel better when they are useful when they can actually do something when they can solve problems and and and and make things better I know for a lot of you women that this might actually be one of the major complaints or challenges of a of a relationship that you know many times guys are always trying to fix you or fix the situation rather than just listening but from a guy’s perspective it really makes us feel fulfilled and good when we can solve problems and when we fix things so one major hack in my relationship between Emily and myself is rather than her trying to tell me what to do when I find that she actually shifts her approach it makes a huge difference rather than telling me Justin you need to do this or I want you to do this one she actually approaches it with a question hey Justin I have a problem do you mind helping me with this or Justin there’s something I can’t figure out can you help me with this I find that that actually makes me excited to jump in and to contribute in that scenario and so for me the desire to help in the desire to fix is actually one of the ways that I feel more fulfilled in the relationship when Emily says hey you know I got this big project or family’s coming over and we want to do this big thing would you mind helping me do X Y or Z for me it’s a lot easier to jump in so there you have it there are a couple things that guys need in a relationship again I’m interested in hearing your thoughts do you agree do you disagree what would you share in the comments section below before you guys go if you haven’t yet signed up 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