What does the Bible say about Dating? | Christians Dating | Christian Youtuber

do you have questions about Christian dating Christian courtship or Christian relationship advice if you’ve ever wondered what the Bible says about dating stay tuned hi guys my name is Justin and I want to welcome you to that Christian vlogger a place where you get to come and join me and experience faith in the first person today’s episode is all about Christian dating I get this question all the time so what does the Bible say about dating before we begin I want to commend you for asking questions about Christian dating I get to meet and speak with so many Christian singles who are really trying their best to glorify God in the relationships and I think this is me a huge blessing for you so let’s get started not surprisingly the Bible actually never uses the term dating even once however this doesn’t mean that there isn’t anything helpful for us so you know don’t leave just yet at the very beginning of the Bible during the creation story in Genesis we actually get to learn about how God created the world we read about God’s speaking and entire worlds and galaxies come into being just by his words oceans and skies forms beasts on the land in the sea and even in the air all come into being in an instant but it’s right after this point that I want to draw our attention towards there’s a very important question about this story that I want to ask and I’m guessing that it’s actually a question that most of you have never thought about God has just finished creating Adam and starts by giving Adam a job Adam is supposed to name all the animals that he sees so Adam points in the distance and sees that thing with a giant neck and decides to call that thing a giraffe he looks into the sky and sees all these flying creatures and calls them Birds and it’s at this point in the story that many preachers begin to make a particular point about Adam they’ll say things like Adam sees these creatures swinging in the trees and he calls a monkey but he counts them one two he notices the Lions running around and counts them one two he sees the fish and the Bears and the dogs and the deers and all of them he counts them over and over 1 2 1 2 one two the number of the day is who so with at this point that Adam looks at himself and counts one hey god where’s my number two and of course God apologizes profusely says I’m so sorry I knew I forgot something yeah that’s actually not how it went you see this idea that Adam was the one who noticed that he was missing a pair is actually false in fact from what we can see it seems that Adam is actually pretty content with the way things are not until verse eighteen that it’s God who points out this fact that Adams alone in fact in the words of the scriptures God says it is not good that man should be alone I will make a helper fit for him pause right there cuz I want you to get this it is God not Adam who knows when the perfect time for his partner to enter the story you see Adam isn’t running around complaining God I need a partner I need a wife I need a girlfriend you see – Adam his relationship with God was more than enough for him to be fulfilled the first principle that we can draw from this story is this if you have this burning desire that you absolutely need someone in your life in order to be happy it’s probably a good sign that you haven’t found completeness in the arms of Jesus yet if you’re out there looking for someone to fill this void in your heart and this someone is someone other than Jesus Christ you’re setting yourself up for disappointment why because no one can fill the hole in your heart that only God was designed to fill but let’s continue the story the Bible says that the Lord caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and while he slept God took one of the ribs out of Adam’s side and close it up with flesh again so here’s the question that I want to ask about this text the question is why did God caused Adam to sleep when he was creating Eve I mean think about this is actually a very important question we just learned about how God could speak entire worlds into existence so why not just speak even to existence why not create Eve out of the very same dirt that Adam was created out of or why not even just pull the rib out of Adam’s side when he was awake I mean shouldn’t the master physician be able to do this without any pain or discomfort so why does God put Adam to sleep here’s why I think God does this you see when Adam was created all he knew was God it was him and Jesus all the way and as we talked about earlier Adam definitely came to a place where his relationship with God was all that he ever needed but here’s the problem if God would just create even Adam was standing right there from the moment Eve opened her eyes and saw both Adam and God her attention would forever be split between the two and of course if Eve’s attention is split how is she ever going to be able to love God fully you see God puts Adam to sleep for this very important reason you see God wants to have a one-on-one a personal and intimate relationship with Eve before Eve could ever let anyone into her personal life she had to make sure that her relationship with God was rock-solid so what does the Bible say about dating not a ton admittingly but we can say two things for sure number one both parties need to develop a relationship with God where they can honestly say that Jesus is more than enough and number two it is always better to allow God to be the one to match you with that special someone because it was him who said it is not good for man to be alone well that’s it for today’s episode on what does the Bible say about date got any other questions about Christian dating if so let us know in the comments section below and I’ll do my best to answer those questions as always if you were blessed by this video don’t forget to share it with a friend and if you’re interested in seeing more videos like this in the future don’t forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel or 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