Practical Tips For Staying Pure In Your Relationship

I have the back of an old man God healed my back what’s up guys I’m Paul and this is the Paul and Paul and Morgan show today’s video practical tips for staying pure in your relationship I ain’t just a chocolate so it’s gonna be hard for me to be too serious she’s slapped bad because she’s tired guys if you’re new to our channel we were making Christian advice videos on life need to help you and be free so subscribe alright purity purity purity purity everybody wants purity but few people maintain it hold on to it let’s go without further ado tip number one we don’t have them written out but I think that they’re written on our hearts on the tablets of our heart the first tip that I think about to realize that you’re not as strong as you think you are it’s a great one I’m the person who I grew up and like everyone around me told me that I was way more mature for my age and like and I was like yeah in reality we’re not strong at all the Lord is yeah the Bible so often talks about resist this sin resist this whatever but when it comes to sexual lust it says flee you need to just get away from things that are gonna cause you to cross those purity lines another tip so I’m not gonna say that it’s wrong for you guys to go on a date just the two of you alone we did yeah but like I usually either told my parents like hey this is the time that I’ll be home I’m going to Lexington he’s taking me out to eat and then I’m coming home keep the parents in the loop that’s the smart thing right which meant we didn’t leave room for us to have like hours on end where we weren’t doing anything like we did what we said we were gonna do on our date and then we say goodbye and left I think a lot of people dating are like hey come over let’s just hang out and then they just hang out go ahead and be purposeful with the time you spend together my dad always used to say and I didn’t like it when he said it but he would always say nothing good happens after midnight I didn’t like it as a kid but I’m seeing his points staying up till 3:00 in the morning even if you’re just on the phone like you are investing in that person sharing intimate stuff with them most likely I’m not saying never you know do anything with that person after midnight but is it wise to be cautious it’s wise I feel like such a father right now quick Paul do something young another tip if you think that you can you can’t that’s kind of mean was she saying stay pure and my thoughts without Lord I see where she was going are you putting your trust in yourself and your boyfriend or yourself and your girlfriend because if you are then you guys are gonna fail in my past relationships I was trusting my boyfriend to not cross lines I was trusting myself to not cross in reality the both of us should have been relying on the Lord that said the Lord has given us tools to help us maintain purity so when Paul would come over like we’d hang out upstairs with my family and then we would go downstairs to my bedroom but I remember one of the first times like he came down to my bedroom he like went and sat on the floor in the corner and I was gonna sit on the bed with this movie got my bed and I was like you can come sit here and he was like no so crazy because no guy had ever done that before okay if you’re always trying to hang out with your boyfriend or girlfriend alone why what are you trying to do and that’s Satan trying to get you to be alone so that he can tempt you guys if you’re in a relationship where you’re kind of wondering what purity boundaries should I make pray about what we’re saying here because we’re not just speaking pulling these out of the sky okay it was not easy for us would you follow these ridiculous boundaries but it was absolutely worth it guys absolutely worth it so how about this start off early in your relationship talk about them you might think that this other person because they’re a Christian is on the same page talk about them because they may not be I would even say like write down the boundaries that you want to have she wasn’t super happy with how black-and-white and strict the boundaries that I Center were yep do you remember any of the ones that I sent you he was very specific and so it was kind of funny gift specific yummy vague it was things like hands will not go below the waist I remember saying that sumi the more specific the better yeah because if you’re vague then you’re like oh well we didn’t really say line gets crossed guys we see so many young people with good intentions fall into impurity with their boyfriend or girlfriend and we do not want that we’re here to fight against it all right so a challenge to you men you are the leaders in the relationship set up the boundaries make them clear ladies submit to those boundaries if they’re not as strong as you’d like them to be then you need to put your input in as well okay don’t be great to add to it or make it even stronger mine we’re not as strong as his but I’m very very glad that I 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