Why Many Christian Girls Remain Single | Christian Singles

in today’s video I’m sharing three reasons why many Christian girls remain single stay tuned [Music] hey guys my name is Justin and I want to welcome you to that Christian vlogger a place forget to join me and experience faith in the first person on this channel I talk about relevant issues of faith for young people every single Monday and Thursday so definitely consider subscribing I recently stumbled across this blog post entitled 5 reasons why many Christian girls remain single and I thought it was absolutely genius 3 of these reasons really set out to me so if any of you guys would like to read the original post to see all 5 reasons I will include a link in the description bar of this video reason number one Christian girls remain single girls want to marry Jesus not a disciple of Jesus one issue that this vlog talks about or that some women have set impossibly high standards standards that literally only Jesus could reach I mean sorry girls but not all of us can actually walk on water and raise the dead okay now I’m not at all saying that it’s wrong to have high standards because the truth is some of you ladies seem to just settle for any dirt bag that has a pulse and/or a few dollars in their pockets so I’m not talking to you guys I’m talking to the type of women who are so incredibly picky to a fault one of the best advices that I got when going through premarital counseling I received was to try and find a person whose Claus I didn’t mind living with for the rest of my life this isn’t to say that growth doesn’t take place but the reality is that we still live in a fallen world and no one person is ever going to be perfect yes even disciples of Christ still have vices and demons that they’re wrestling with so realize that if you’re ever going to find someone special then you’re going to have to be realistic in what you’re actually expecting from them reason number two that Christian girls remain single they see themselves as princesses but don’t care to treat their man as a prince the reality is that you are a daughter of God and you indeed are a princess and you deserve to be treated well and looked after so if not at all wrong to want a man who treats you with you know the types of romantic gestures and goes out of his way just to make sure that you’re okay however this is in fact supposed to be a two-way street some women in a pursuit of being a princess don’t ever share or give up control to their prince and to many of us it does tend to seem that some women are actually looking for slaves and not princes I’ve personally been in a relationships where this was the case and it was exhausting as a man I’ve given and given over and over with little to no reciprocation in a healthy relationship there has to be a degree of give-and-take this does need times that you will get your way but then at other times it does mean that you actually need a compromise and serve for me and for most of the guys that I’ve spoken to there’s only so long that we care to be in you one-sided relationship today’s culture dictates that manner to pay for dinner buy them gifts remember every single anniversary and basically just bend over backwards for the women but but just think how would you feel if you were expected to do all these things and got nothing in return so be sure to let them know that their efforts are appreciated and occasionally try to go out of your way to do something special for him in fact I would suggest that for every single time he does something special that you reciprocate before expecting anything in addition for him and just to be clear I know that some worldly guys will try to play this card to like manipulate women into some form of sexual reciprocity so again not the type of thing I’m talking about in fact if you have a guy like this in your life then it’s probably better that you dump his sorry behind as being single would actually be a huge upgrade for you you do not need that kind of oppression in your life but I digress many of us won’t admit it but as men we actually do like receiving gifts or being treated out surprise dates or things like that but then again it doesn’t actually have to be the kind of thing that you have to spend money on for many of you ladies feeling loved is key but for us guys being respected is what speak to us the most loudly there’s not much that will make us feel more special than having the woman that we love telling us how much she respects us and appreciates the stability of character and the type of effort that we put forward into taking care of her sometimes honestly it’s just nice to know that you feel the same way about reason number three Christian girls remain single they like being pursued but don’t want to be caught listen I get this one committing to a relationship can be hard and while stereotypically we say that it’s usually the guy who is scared of commitment I have met many trician guys who actually feel it’s the exact opposite many guys feel like the girl is just playing games it hasn’t really grown up and look it’s cool I get it many women love the thrill of the pursuit and have fully embraced the whole be an individual thing but I have met many guys who feel as though there are too many girls in the world and just not enough women I get that being pursued feels great and many guys would even go as far as saying that we enjoy pursuing girls but at some point the whole cat-and-mouse game gets old and it starts to look a lot like skin genus or arrogance I spoke with countless guys who felt that they were trying to convince the girl to give things a shot almost as though that they had a canvas her as to why things could work out well between the two of them fact no guy wants to be with a woman who doesn’t realize and acknowledge his value too as always though these are just my thoughts on the issue and I’m open to hearing yours why do you think so many Christian girls remain single and what is your advice to them let me know 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