Signs a Christian Man Is Really in Love with You

if you are a Christian single woman how will you know when a man truly loves you perhaps a man is expressing interest or even said the words I love you but how will you know if he truly means what he says here are five signs that a Christian man really does love you and as we get started please note I’m not saying that these signs are guarantees that a man truly loves you no one can know the inner heart of another human except God however these five signs are strong pieces of evidence for true love number one if a man is pursuing other women too he doesn’t really love you sometimes the easiest way to know if a man loves you or not is to look for signs that he does not love you one sign that shows a lack of true love is when a man is also showing interest in other women for example don’t overlook his unwillingness to let go of contact with his ex-girlfriend’s don’t assume those patterns of flirtation with other women are just in your head certainly give him the benefit of the doubt but don’t ignore the obvious signs that a man is also pursuing other women besides you number two if the man demands sex or else he will leave you he does not really love you one of the worst traits of modern man has unfortunately taken a stronghold in the church as well many guys are unwilling to wait to have sex before marriage not only is this a sign that this man does not really love God it is also a sign that he does not really love you if a man really loved you he would commit to you in marriage before having sex a man who demands sex before marriage shows that he is just interested in your body and does not really love you number 3 a man who serves you really loves you if you want to know if a man truly loves you you have to remember what true love is in John 15 13 jesus said greater love has no one than this that someone laid down his life for his friends true love is serving the other person true love is doing what’s best for them even at great cost to yourself if a man demands service from you rather than demonstrating sacrificial service to you this is a sign that he does not really love you number 4 a man who does things you like even though he doesn’t like those things himself is showing that he really loves you sacrificial love doesn’t always need to be expressed in heroic or epic ways most of the time true love will be expressed in daily sacrifices that might even go unnoticed much of the time simple things like picking the show he knows you want to watch or picking the restaurant he knows you really enjoy or going to an event he really doesn’t want to go to but he does it for you these are the types of daily sacrifices a man will make if he truly loves you it’s certainly not wrong for a man to do things he likes to do – but if he never considers you in practical ways and always puts himself first this is a sign he does not really love you and number 5 if he asks you to marry him this is the clear sign that he loves you the clear sign that a Christian woman should look for from a man who truly loves her is marriage if a man never asks you to marry him this is a sign he does not truly love you that much a man who really loves you will want to marry you in fact I believe it is wise to not even say the words I love you until you are prepared to get married the first time I told my wife that I loved her was when I was proposing to her I wanted my actions to reflect my words I wanted my commitment to always match our intimacy to me it felt impossible to say that I love Bethany without then marrying her so the truest that a man actually loves you as if he asks you to marry him if you enjoyed this video and you want more Christian content about relationships and singleness and how to glorify God in your life don’t forget to tap the subscribe button I’m posting new videos every single week so I’d love for you to join this growing community