Qualities to Look for in a Christian Relationship // Coffee and Bibletime

[Music] it’s Taylor from coffee and Bible time thank you so much for clicking on this video if you like what you see don’t forget to subscribe to our Channel and let’s just get into the video what I look for in a Christian boyfriend / husband just a little side note I am in high school so let’s not get ahead of ourselves I don’t think I’m going to be marrying a boy at age 17 and qualities of the heart thank you hey now you know she’s my back why are you just showing out I can sell my first quality that I would want in a lover is that he loves God more than he loves me the verse that I have with that is second Corinthians 6:14 do not be yoked together with unbelievers for what do righteousness and wickedness have in common or what fellowship can light have with darkness so basically what this verse is saying is that if you marry somebody who doesn’t love God like you love God then your relationship is going to be unequally yoked and by that’s referring to back in the day when they had accented stuff and if you had one ox that was like way bigger than the other ox then they would basically just walk in circles and it would be like really unproductive my second quality that I would want in a hubby is that he believes in me and that he values me so the verse that I have to go along with this is are verbs 31 10 and 11 and it says a wife of noble character who can find she is worth far more than rubies her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value so basically you know if you are a strong Christian woman you find a potential boyfriend they should really instill their full confidence in you and they should have a lot of respect for you and they should value you for who you are my study notes say the rhetorical question who can find drugs attention to the rarity of a wife of noble character and to me that’s important because you know you want your husband to look at you like you’re some rare Ruby you don’t know saying my third quality is that we should be excited about life together the Bible verse that I have to go along with this is Genesis 2:24 that is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife and they become one flesh and what I like about this verse is that it says one flesh and it kind of goes along as when I was talking about earlier you are life partners and you’re going to be doing life together I don’t want them to feel like in order to be themselves they have to leave me and like go party and do all these things like a secret hidden life and then come back to our marriage like we should be one and doing life together of may all of life okay so my first quality that I would want Oh voice cracking so the fourth quality that I would want in a life partner is that they don’t get angry easily or and they don’t get discouraged easily the verse that I have to go along with this is 1st Corinthians 13:4 through 5 love is patient love is kind it does not envy it does not boast it is not proud it does not dishonor others it is not self-seeking it is not easily angered it keeps no record of wrongs and this is really important for me because I know a lot of times I can test people’s patience and if they are easily angered and that would not be a good relationship for me to be in um but I also really like that this verse said it keeps no record of wrongs because I think it’s really important in a relationship to not kind of keep tallies on whose starting what fight view others better than yourself okay that makes sense thank you so much for watching I hope these made sense some of these points I kind of rambled a little bit okay like all of them I rambled saying I’d love to hear what you guys look for our Christian husbands so please comment them down below and have a really great day bye [Music]