HOW DOES A CHRISTIAN MOVE ON FROM AN EX

This video is about dealing with an ex from a past relationship . It is for those who are struggling to move on or still missing that person even when they meet other people.

is to find themselves unconsciously comparing mister ed with this new mister B and I’ll just like how much looks like you know she’s print abilities but everything seems to remind her about the person I’m social media muchas friends maybe past kids here spot for her perfumes you know just different things that I might not have other special and it was so difficult for her to move on even if she had prayed about it I’ll just in my head I’m that I’ve been there don’t dance that I had like of experience and also also bugs by the Word of God to do this video so I’ll get to talking about bats okay so in layman’s term who is an X and X is someone that you were in a relationship with previously where you’re no longer in the relationship so ex-boyfriend ex-colleague you’re no longer in any form of relationship with that person when this video what definites definitely talking about romantic relationship someone that you built your life around you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with or the relationship fizzled out or he broke up with you or you broke up with her or you know or you broke up with him if you’re a woman watching this okay so the first thing we’re going to be talking about is acknowledgments is the first step to change meaning in that’s one shock knowledge something that okay I’m doing this issue so I need change I need to move on I need to move forward that’s the first step so I’m glad that she was able to realize what you are a few listen to me in that position ability realize that you know what this person or this relationship is no good for me always know God’s plan for my life right now at this moment that’s why we’re no longer in them in in a committed relationship and tell me let me tell you that’s what all the culture you need you only the person to explain to you that already had a vision it only take person to explain to you that they like somebody else during the persons tell you that all this other baby you yourself you don’t need to tell that person that there’s this new guy that you’re feeling or whatever someone is asking you all know the only closure you need is to acknowledge that you and this person are not good for each other you’re not good together and I’m not saying that that is not say that you you’re not good for another person or the ex let me use the mind I’m not gonna you know tailor it to the message that I am referencing I’m not going to say that that man is not going to be good find out that this I mean you as a particular so saying this person is not good for you or if your name is Mary Mary this person is not good for you so that’s really the only food you’re like me so much about knowledge that Lanka Naaman to the next stage inside simple as it says Irina grab like to say it’s not that easy but trust me this is part of the things you need to do it’s called discipline any minute everything that reminds you of this person delete your email thread the little person’s number trust me if you crumb someone’s number after a few years you will forget trust me you would forget so delete the person’s number delete the email thread and people always keep saying what if the person I maybe the person is my church member even when I delete the person syllabus to see the person in church every day I believe that church is the sanctuary for you to grow if been in an environment where someone is is not enabling you to grow because of the distractions you can change Church God is not going to hate you you can change for that period if you find many are not emotionally maturely you’re not disciplined enough so you know manage the situation if you see that person is just a brother in the Lord God loves them as well if you cannot do that change church is like don’t feel some circumstance where you will have to deal with the same scenario so what about if it’s school you can’t just you know stop going to class because of this person then you have to beauty emotional capacity no I’m not a fan of you know you’re running from situations if you’re a student or if you’re and others are you work in the same work is all your family friends I’m a fan of you you know just running away are packing our things and leave but if you have the option also like they don’t have that option like the examples that I’ve given I would say that you should you know develop it so begin to train yourself to leave without this person now is going to be difficult but trust me you can do all things through Christ Jesus all things and so what’s what I was saying about you know any missing things that remind you of this person don’t keep the birthday cards the little picture that’s unfolding from Instagram it’s not hate you know I tell people that the mandate is to love the mandate is not it’s really awesome I haven’t experienced a couple of years of growth in 2011 I even had the opportunity to leave the country so I did and even when I left obviously they were still you know mail trails there were still messages I don’t follow too depressing or their family members unfollowed everybody I deleted the mill I would changed my email address this person used to mail me and all the time as a restriction a lot of emails so I think that the narrow trail I didn’t even in fact if I be fine if I felt it does ever enter now this was when I was listening what I’ve known my husband now it does every time I miss this person I shake it up I remind myself of my closure I remind myself that this is the reason why I’m no longer in this relationship with this person and I’m going to say this there’s a thin line between closure and resentments now I don’t want you to get to the point where you find the person despicable for instance a infidelity made you break up or I don’t mean if you don’t let me give our men some props maybe you guys just couldn’t work out together for the reasons best known to both of you not resent into the person the person to the points are enough icing we think about the space and when you see anybody that’s very in the same name as the person you’re like no God loves that person no matter how the person hurt you no matter how much the person cost you pay no matter how much you would have loved like for that person God still loves the person and that’s what they need to came to your head as a believer God loves the person God wants the person should be son God wants the President to make heaven so it got lost a place and who are you to resent the person just not what I’m saying so even as they are having closure even as you have it or against it it meets all the messages I’m going to little the text message don’t tweet from the points of hits and that’s why in my previous videos I always talk about how you need to be whole as a woman before you have committed to another person be the boyfriend theater fancy being a husband like you need to be who love the person because the person is like a joy so when the person are you a live need a relationship with that person you are not this consort do you understand what I’m saying so that’s that literally means everything that reminds you of this person then that thing I will see it also keep yourself occupied like don’t be I do don’t all sit down a stop faffing around another say today’s Saturday if I was we Marcus now I still would have gone out to the beach we would have had a large know about the item that I don’t mind is the devil’s workshop Gianna spent like there who doesn’t them does not giving you thoughts if you made a sexual relationship with that person as many no style no stay no violence person and you might mean broken up the person because you don’t want to be in sexual sin anymore so now that you have broken up with this person you are now because you are not missing the person because you are I do because that nights you listen to all the Blues and all the songs are you guys still love together you will not start lost and so not only are you missing this person you’re leaving yourself insane do you understand what I mean so I think it’s really important that you know you don’t you know I do as the Third Point your companion Suffolk you can self busy you volunteer you go for your events you we have open to meet some other people now I don’t mean me to not have a good date say no because I feel like you need to begin so let’s say that I feel like you need to have some space I feel you need to heal from anything before you just you know jump into another relationship I’ve shared before my channel that I was single for literally almost four years before I met my husband so I feel like that’s my own you your own can be three months your own can be one here as long as you feel like we’re in a good place you are not comparing when you know meet some more nothing this one was so kind to sponsor Luigi you’re not saying oh this guy on my birthday will buy me a new card it’s only just buying a necklace don’t be yourself in opposition as long as you’re in a good place mentally and how do you even get to that good place by putting yourself in an environment where you can incubate yourself where you can be a better woman wake and he’ll where you can see this person you can run into this person and even if it’s not all love because I’m not going to be myopic it’s all peace you know you follow peace with all men it’s all oh hello how’s it going maybe a little bit awkward but that’s fine that’s the consequence of you being in relationship to someone you shouldn’t have been in the relationship with in the first place you know what I mean and I know that people come up with these examples and say things that and no God wanted me to be in a relationship because you know what I’m teaching a lesson I feel has a lie from the pit of hell I feel that I believe I don’t feel I believe that we carry ourselves into relationships I will not go today because God is my time-waster God would not make you waste your time with Jeremy Jones waste your Phyllis waits when you learn a lesson or cellphone should never maybe we put I feel I believe we put ourself in that situation and even though the devil metaphor but God in His infinite mercy turned it around and that situation I was meant to write you emotionally that situation I was meant to make you less of a person that still means making merry the worst person ever in your life God turned it around to be learning curve Jenna’s not what I’m saying also I truly believe that you know the situation’s when we encounter them and we have lived by God’s grace we’ve had the courage to leave the situation’s and leave these relationships we can still you know love the person from the distance when I say love I don’t mean romantic love love them with Ian gapping the god kind of love you care about the salvation of this person you want the person to make heaven the one the presence of Mary God’s plan for their life you’re not self-centered it’s not a case of if I’m not having me no one can have him you’re not stalking your new girlfriend’s or your new host wives again you new boyfriends even when you stalk them or you’re checking up on their ego which I don’t advise you to you’re checking up on them for me please so or how does this person do it general sandwich I said I don’t buy sheets we do whatever for adventure you find yourself Larkin I’m doing that don’t be spiteful turned on sales look at the gills if she’s not as pretty as I have she say well as eloquent as I am who is she don’t don’t make yourself that person trust me don’t make yourself that person so that’s the third thing I would like to say about moving on to a new relationship the fourth thing which already touched on briefly is also a l’cie is to develop yourself build yourself know when you’re spending time building yourself trust me they’ll be times where you will be so lonely you miss that having someone a colony at the time you know coming back from work or school and you have like 10 missed calls on your phone you are going to miss it let me tell you from suspected sister you’re going to miss that hey baby how’s it going you it’s miss that oh I just love you nobody’s ooh but in that moment you’re training yourself I don’t know if you watched my previous video that I talked about how we’re in a long-distance relationship you know my husband touch talks about something he said you know while you’re dating somebody here away from the person you are able to know your capacity and future capacity so also while you’re single and waiting on the Lord as a woman or as a man is single and you’re still waiting on the love of God is to give you a leading to that woman you’re building your capacity computing your emotional intelligence you’re building your capacity for building your maturity you’re building your skills you’re building your virtues you know just for anyway so by the time you are building all the things you have you find out that you become so in love with yourself you love yourself so much that you don’t need another person you’re not craving you’re not desperate trust me just pressure is unattractive you’re not this week and I’m looking for someone solely to clip okay up now that cousin is fine no you’re not doing all of that you have content in your season yeah I would understand it from the Word of God ah there’s time for everything Evelyn it’s funny from the Word of God God is preparing you so that you can pay good summer so that you did bless it so wherever he connects you with in the future lastly what I would advise you you mailed me or you that you’re watching this video to do is that when you try to move on his prayer now I’ve been in a position I’m not I’m going to be as real as possible that I remedy not once not twice not two tribes in or three times have I found myself telling you God that please God remove these thoughts from this message and I’m talking about this happened night 2011-2012 and 2017 so five years ago yet four five years ago and I would you know find myself maybe I’ve gone on let me see X moans I didn’t even think about it I won’t do it without this calm do you know what he’s doing you miss him you duties and never be like you know I mean I’m a very intentional Christian and I hear myself say casanare these thoughts every imagination onto this on the subjection to the Word of God God doesn’t want me to do that that person is not going to plan for my life so me thinking about this person misspending thoughts on this verse it is no good move for my life but doesn’t mean the person is a bad person doesn’t mean the person is horrible it doesn’t enough for my purpose or my family God has called me to this person is not my soul mates this person is not my life partner this person is not my destiny helper especially is not part of God’s agenda for my life so I passed it down into obedience to the Word of God yes that so I found myself Korean Italian Gordon God I have the clerk permission if I hide and this matter is not for me Holy Spirit’s please eliminate his thoughts from my life and I find out because the Bible says without faith is impossible so please good the fact that I have enough faith to pray that prayer the fact that I have enough faith to believe that one stuff previous pray our goddess head I feel peace I feel relieved and trust me if a desire immersion is in God’s plan for your life before you know it when you’re not even searching we are not even looking usually I’m not saying all cases that’s why you’re pretty charming comes along that’s where your yoga answer prayer come to know because yes I believe that you may be when you marry somebody the person can be your exact spray or vodka that can be the answer Supriya you sparks because I believe in testing that wasn’t what you were able to speak ugliness that that person to you I’m not talking about maybe eyes lips number then choose the aura around that person even God is real so so pardon me guys you just brought the light so there’s a little bit of background noise wasn’t people pronounce or anyone I said X I’m gonna take you from the top I’m alleging that he needs to move on and that this person is not going to God’s plan for your life like Salah so it means everything I remind you of the person I also talked about how that we should occupy yourself and talks about how you should pray about it at the Holy Spirit we need you I talked about you know loving that person know that God loves that person as well besides you know I have been in love like romantic love a you know just I talked about loving the person for me just as I knew that God was the person to be happy too so you don’t be resentful so many videos are my points for moving on from a relationship I hope that this video was insightful please feel free to comment below some of the things that you think may be helpful that I did not list in this video you completely do in the comment box and a breakfast person so more really stood out for you Biggs and everything that I said thank you guys so much for always watching my video make sure you like share subscribe you sure your dog is actually on everybody you know and thank you so much I love you guys until next time same place bye