Going on Vacation Celibate | Christian Courtship | Godly Dating

oh no $1 so what kind of intro so we’re gonna be ready welcome back to my channel and she can see I have a special somebody here with me today yes this is my wonderful husband Jonathan and he’s gonna help me out with today’s yeah yep well so I’m gonna let him get started and share with you what we’re talking about today well I actually done the over talking about but well this story won’t really know but quick little you know snippet met her online on social media and in Boxster you know saw that she like a couple of pictures and everything fast for past that we exchanged phone numbers and I know we were talking for about a couple months and I was like hey I was going to trip you know I want to go to know I said I wanted to go to the beach so she had invited herself actually I can’t she invited herself so he was like oh sure yeah I was gonna go either way you know so thank you wanted me again yeah of course I did you know so I was like I wanna go to the beach I haven’t been to the beach in a while like two months yeah two months I thought is just gonna be super chill just so you know drive the car and just relax and just watch the Stars and everything on the beach just wake up and come back the next morning it’s super late I mean super early in the morning and you know I’m getting sleepy and stuff so I’m just driving you know I’m having thoughts just coming off nowhere I’m like even know this chick man you know she goes riding in my car she probably got a shank on her or you know some kind of knife or some I don’t know it was having weird thoughts on the way there I don’t know why it was weird maybe it was the devil just trying to feel my hair with this stuff so that I wanna get so close to her you know and allowed that relationship to you know become what it has become and so while he was having those thoughts it was it was like he said it was like 3:00 in the morning or something and he was driving the way we’re driving was like in some creepy backstreet there was a completely pitch black and so he pulled up to this like abandoned oh yeah you’re like abandoned old country store or something no streetlights or anything so I’m thinking like right in the world I can’t really remember why I pulled over to that place oh yeah yeah yeah I made the wrong turn your friends at this point yeah of course we were friends I just met you like a month before so yeah I was just jumping just stuff that quick man people crazy out of here so I’m not advising anybody who just met someone like a month ago just going spontaneous trips but it worked out for you it worked out for me you know and you you know so so thank you guys for didn’t sleep in the same bed at all it wasn’t no you hop in my bed or whatever type stuff because I wasn’t gonna allow temptation to come and uh you know it the devil will try to give you thoughts but it is up to you to decipher where you’re gonna do with those thoughts that’s just the active part of your wheel and like we’ve gotten several trips like being friends and dating we never slept in bed together until we were married yeah don’t even try it out you know is this this opening the door for the devil to creep in I’m trusting me he’s creeping in you just got to make sure that you’re not allowing them to cuz Sun is that door creaks open a little bit he’s gonna jump in there like to be real you just have to know where you are and when it comes to things like that just be mindful of it but if you don’t care about living right and all that type stuff I guess all this is just throwing up the window you gonna do what you want to do anyway you know which is cool cuz you’re your own person I’m not trying to push you on to do things the way we did it or whatever but you choose to accept that it’s not like you have to go to church and you have to do now I’m good God speaks to everyone individually you know so if it reaches you then hopefully you know you will you would do things that you know keep you in line with God but if you are here just you know doing whatever I mean that’s cool too I guess for you courtship let you take that one okay well some of the boundaries that we had yeah because you made me read a book about it so I didn’t make you that was that was a pasta lady see the boundary booth yes okay well I still then like it then the house some of the boundaries and we had um I found it’s kind of like fluctuated as far as where we’re in our relationship I know at the beginning before we started officially dating I want to like go to sleep on the phone and talking about all the time and we did we didn’t possibly gonna fall for a while and then because I was like no I wanna date yet he was like well you can’t have all the you know Polish people to be wearing on a date so I’m like well I’m from the fall asleep on the phone with you got man but we have been doing it and I like you like it was okay you know then I thought about it I’m like okay why am i fall asleep on the phone because you like me yeah but it was comforting to you amazing yeah okay you want to say to you know so after that happened we set a boundary where we weren’t gonna target phone at the same time oh we had to go I think we could still text that we’re still text at that time because you know women like to talk a lot a lot he’d been like hang out at each other’s houses past a certain time that’s something that it was sick folks that did it yeah of course you want to stay because the flesh is like why do I have the leaves like you’re in a constant battle when you’re when you’re in a relationship and we recording but like as soon as you’re you know married and it’s like ah thank God you know is this over where you don’t have to do all the boundary thing and everything but you’re still just hold out until that time comes because it’s gonna be yeah like there was just things where he knew weren’t appropriate like well renew weren’t appropriate like touching each other in certain places or like wearing certain things like if he came over I knew not to be walking around like booty shorts and bra or something like that but the fully clothed because I didn’t want him looking at me like triggering anything to make him like one of counts against Putin just being aware mindful of things it to possibly provoke the person a shady to even have molesky Bob Stewart thoughts or try to like you don’t want to drive them get to temptation or struggle in their mind about second thing it’s doing things bad ways very pretty and here’s the Brutes [Music] one of my videos I know these kind of all over the place so thanks for watching thank you guys for allowing me to be on the channel [Music]