Godly Relationships. | Christian Vlogs – Christian Dating Magazine

[Music] and [Music] what’s up guys jay is here again just come in to push on another video for you this topic is going to be about godly relationships majority of Christians want a godly relationship but what is it godly relationship a godly relationship means that God is in control of that whole relationship God is bringing you two together together to glorify Him you could have two christians dating but yet it be ungodly Jael is that simply put if God is at the center of it all if God isn’t the focus of that relationship if God isn’t the the reason why we’re trying to get together to work by him that relationship isn’t a God relationship so how do you have a got relationship well first off you want to make sure that you have a strong relationship with God the reason why is because in a relationship it demands commitment communication it demands all these type of things for a relationship to run right but it can also be a hindrance if your walk with God isn’t strong as it should be because we could be spending so much time focusing on this person that you leave God out of the whole thing and then it turns on God because he isn’t the focus anymore so before you get into relationship make sure that you have your own relationship with God that is so strong that nothing is going to tear you apart nothing could distract you Bible says that what would separate me from the love of God in Christ Jesus nothing should be able to do that not that person love my television not anything so before you even think about getting in the relationship make sure you have that relationship know were God on that foundation and make sure that you’re not trying to build a relationship with God so that he could bless you with somebody else because a lot of times you fall into that trap that oh I gotta have relationship with God in order to get this person so let me just build this relationship God in order to get this person don’t do that he’s worth more than just being used for self gain no God is more than that don’t use that for that reason build that relationship like you would try and build a relationship with anybody else focus on and communicate with them spend time with them commit your soul your life your heart to them like you would to somebody else but even more him because he is more important how you govern yourselves in a relationship your standards or morals everything make sure that it’s in a way that would we can go where to God make sure that it’s not going to go refine this flesh that of you will be your own man they got to keep relationship but can they see God in your relationship that’s the question should be asked can they see God and us are we portraying God in the church better I read are we establishing God’s love through our relationship can people be saved and look to us respiration on how to do a godly relationship there was it is you have to ask Allah for that image don’t get caught up in the whole romance of things that you leave God kind of things okay because about relationship has to have got at its focus the most important one is to wait for God elusive don’t just go out and grab anybody that’s Christian be like oh he’s strong enough she’s seeing strong enough loves Mary let’s get together don’t don’t just grab somebody off the shelf and you telling Parham oh if you let God to the pan he’s the matchmaker don’t go on tinder and clover you harmony all these other things don’t look to those looks to God because since the only one that has that soulmate that’s gonna fit you like a glove so wait on God whatever God tells us to wait on it is worth the way I promise you God would not will never forsake you he would never steer you wrong so for a godly relationship to work God must be the center he must be the focus and he must be glorified wait on God for that relationship for that spouse for that person and be open because God may not even have you to be in a relationship or be married just be fully focused that’s why I said before that it’s so important to have that relationship with God that regardless if he says that you’re meant to be married or not it won’t faze you yeah you may have the desire but if you can’t be married or it’s not in the will of God for you be married it won’t face you because you’ve you’ve already established that love and commitment for God remember that you are worth the way never never doubt that about yourself you’re worth the wait and God has someone plan for your life if it’s according to Israel so love God love others and love yourself I’ll see you guys next time take care [Music]