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so the big questions Big Mama juicy questions what’s up guys how you doing I’m Paul and this is Colin Morgan the public mortgage show so we are doing a five-part series we were pretty excited about it actually one of our subscribers wrote in and was like guys tell us what intentional dating looked like for you all and break it down for us into some of the biggest categories so we picked the biggest categories and we think you guys are gonna like it so today’s video is the big questions that we asked each other we believe there are some really important questions that you don’t want to wait a long time into your dating to go ahead and get out there is what we did together slash how much time did we spend with one another if you’re new to this channel make sure you subscribe we make Christian advice videos on life love and dating to help you have hope and be free let’s just go ahead and establish do you dive in to the big questions on the very first date okay maybe not on the first date but I think guys in the very first few days yes okay sorry you just want to make sure that you know these very important things before you are just too far in and then you find out and then you’re like yeah then you start making excuses for and compromising wow I had no clue that about them but you already were so invested that you start being like well okay that’s not that big a deal when really it is alright so first example first question that you can maybe ask is that you are asking you wanting to know where their walk is with the Lord you’re like hey the Lord is my everything he is my first priority I’d love to know you know where he is in your life yeah I mean it’s a fair question like if the guy or girl can answer that question or they say well that’s really personal to me that should give you a good idea and you know we’re not trying to be mean you’re like if they have an answer that you know maybe just reveals that there are a weaker Christian or they’re very new to the faith we’re not saying that that’s a red flag and you need to dump them but it should just give you an idea of you know who you’re who you’re talking to like my sister and I’ve said in the previous video you don’t flirt to convert and you don’t date to save so if you find out that this guy is not really walking with the Lord or he’s like oh yeah I go to church you know like when I have time like I believe in God look that’s not the answer you want to hear if you want a man who is going to lead you and your relationship and in your you know marriage possibly and you don’t want to be like oh well he goes to church so there’s hope that you can have a strong relation with that at some point and you know and ultimately guys these questions are super important but the Bible says you will know them by their fruit so sometimes you actually have to spend a little more time to see how they act and see if they’re genuine and the way they’re answering because people can put on a good face but nonetheless you can still learn quite a bit from just asking questions what is another example question Paul that you may be asked me ok I’ll be upfront I asked Morgan very quickly on our first date early in our first date how serious she was about finding a husband and it caught her a little bit off guard but I just wanted to put myself out there and be like hey I’m not dating around just a date for years and years and years and years I’m dating intentionally looking for who I’m gonna marry and I needed to see if she was in the same ballpark or if she was way out on that field if her answer would have been oh well I’m just looking to have a good time and find somebody to hang out with because I mean I did date girls that would say stuff like that like oh I’m I don’t see myself getting married for years and years because I want to focus on career or whatever else yeah I’m saying another question that guy or girl you wouldn’t ask in the first few days is physical boundaries where are you out where’s your mind what are you thinking is it okay to kiss you know on the first few dates is it okay to hold hands Beauvoir where do you want to go with that because you have a lot of people that are Christians that have a very different idea of what physical boundaries should look like right sure I had been on days before where it was clear that the guy was gonna be totally okay I was like maybe kissing on the first date and stuff like that and it was like okay we need to talk about this first oh yeah don’t just assume that you guys are on the same page because you met this guy at your church youth group it’s great to talk about physical boundaries first day second day third day I’d say very soon early on if you don’t want to have an awkward encounter where the guy leans in for a kiss and you’re like huh whoa what this Paul asked me a lot of questions on our first date I literally felt like I was being interrogated in the best way possible but I was being interrogated then guys you want to be sensitive use use common sense I maybe went a little too far because of how intentional I was I wanted to know is this girl compatible like is this girl someone I could marry cause if not I don’t want to draw it out and go on a lot of dates I was not mean with them like I was not I was everything and that’s just kind of how I rolled lock me up her being too forward and godly I went ahead and was asking her questions about her family her relationships with her parents questions that helped you get to know the person don’t you want to know their relationship with their family and also just the way they answer if you’re going out with a girl or a guy and you ask them are you close with your mom and dad and they start just talking all kinds of negative mean stuff about their mom it gets gossipy and stuff like you can kind of be like okay another big one is ask them about their vocation their career if they’re like I see myself overseas on the mission field but if you feel like oh I’m have this career here in the states that I feel the Lord leading me in and they’re seeing themselves overseas that is a practical thing to think about not necessarily something you can’t get past and pray about but it’s a practical thing I think Paul one of the questions he asked me was like where do you see yourself in five years one of the questions that I asked Paul was you know how do you feel about stay-at-home moms like would you prefer that your wife is a stay-at-home mom that she takes care of kids and you are the main provider or what because I personally want to be stay-at-home mom I wanted to know if he was like up for that or he was like no I kind of like want to chase my dreams and I’m gonna need you to work you’re right that’s a good question another one with that is how do you feel about kids I mean that’s a big one some people their immediate reaction is gonna be I’d rather not have kids for five years for ten years or I really want a small family one kid to max and you’re like oh but I grew up with five yeah with five siblings like I wanna have a big family or something someone might say I really just don’t want to have kids at all and then you’d be like ask me how soon can I ask you know about virginity guys be gentle with that yeah if you see yourself going on with this person going on more dates and like you can go in the first few dates you can just you can figure out whether or not you want to continue pursuing or not I think it’s absolutely okay within the after the first few dates to bring that up and just be like hey let’s talk about abstinence that you know are are you saving it for marriage have you continued to stay pure and you know if you have not if you lost your virginity but you’ve repented from that like bring that up to find that stuff guy yeah and maybe you would say don’t push bringing that up on the first date but like Morgan said once you feel like well I really could see something with this person you want to go ahead and bring it up and I would recommend you go home and you pray about it and see what the Lord puts on you regarding that situation guys don’t forget to have fun in these days although you’re asking serious questions it’s a fun time it is and that’s just a balance you’re gonna have to figure out because yeah you don’t want to be too question question question and it turns into an interview let us know in the comment section down below what are some questions what’s one question that you feel like you should add to that list guys give this video a thumbs up if you see yourself jumping into the dating game soon shout out to our current patrons who are supporting us financially monthly you guys are amazing we love you so much seriously and we are on a mission to get to 250 patrons when we hit that goal we have several things that we’re gonna do we’re gonna do FaceTime calls with 20 of our patrons send out handcrafted goods to several of you guys even go take one patron out to 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