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HEY GUYS OUT THERE What should I do about this guy?

Cassie asked:

Ok here's a list of the body language that he has displayed around me:

-Spreads his legs so far apart he's almost touching my foot
-Is very polite
-Seems to use his eyes - makes me uncomfortable
-Smiles a lot
-Acts like he's interested in conversating with me
-Makes an effort to know more about me (might mean zilch)
-A little shy
-Looks at my chest
-Seems to 'linger' or find sth to say before I leave class... but i just walk off.. you know non-chalant like LOL (he prolly wants a study partner)
-Points to things on my paper, invading my personal space
-Tries to help me, when I need help: For example, if there is a question i do not know... he'll be like, you want me to ask the prof.. and he does.

My analysis of the situation is that he might actually be flirting with me... but is in part exercising his flirting skills for the fun of it ( I'm 3 years older) while also asking me a few questions about the material in class bc i am doing (probably) significantly better than him

Is there anything I can do to either know he isnt using me.. and if he is.. how i can get him to stop using me.. without it being tremendously awkward for me.

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HEY GUYS OUT THERE What should I do about this guy?

Cassie asked:

Ok here's a list of the body language that he has displayed around me:

-Spreads his legs so far apart he's almost touching my foot
-Is very polite
-Seems to use his eyes - makes me uncomfortable
-Smiles a lot
-Acts like he's interested in conversating with me
-Makes an effort to know more about me (might mean zilch)
-A little shy
-Looks at my chest
-Seems to 'linger' or find sth to say before I leave class... but i just walk off.. you know non-chalant like LOL (he prolly wants a study partner)
-Points to things on my paper, invading my personal space
-Tries to help me, when I need help: For example, if there is a question i do not know... he'll be like, you want me to ask the prof.. and he does.

My analysis of the situation is that he might actually be flirting with me... but is in part exercising his flirting skills for the fun of it ( I'm 3 years older) while also asking me a few questions about the material in class bc i am doing (probably) significantly better than him

Is there anything I can do to either know he isnt using me.. and if he is.. how i can get him to stop using me.. without it being tremendously awkward for me.

Brad

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HEY GUYS OUT THERE What should I do about this guy?

Cassie asked:

I know this guy through a college course we are currently taking together. He usually makes contact with me by visiting the place where I study and also in class as he sits next to me.
Ok here's a list of the body language that he has displayed around me:

-Spreads his legs so far apart he's almost touching my foot
-Is very polite
-Seems to use his eyes - makes me uncomfortable
-Smiles a lot
-Acts like he's interested in conversating with me
-Makes an effort to know more about me (might mean zilch)
-A little shy
-Looks at my chest
-Seems to 'linger' or find sth to say before I leave class... but i just walk off.. you know non-chalant like LOL (he prolly wants a study partner)
-Points to things on my paper, invading my personal space
-Tries to help me, when I need help: For example, if there is a question i do not know... he'll be like, you want me to ask the prof.. and he does.

My analysis of the situation is that he might actually be flirting with me... but is in part exercising his flirting skills for the fun of it ( I'm 3 years older) while also asking me a few questions about the material in class bc i am doing (probably) significantly better than him

Is there anything I can do to either know he isnt using me.. and if he is.. how i can get him to stop using me.. without it being tremendously awkward for me.

Joe

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Need help. What do you do in these situations?

10 Thousand asked:

Okay, I'm not too good at knowing what to say back to girls, how to test the water, etc. Here are two situations:

1. For example, I'm at work. There's this girl who always smiles and waves at me in a girly way. Then one time she was doing something and I said to her, "You shouldn't do that, it could hurt your teeth." (I didn't actually mean anything by it when I said it, even if I'm interested in her) She then gave a big smile and said, "So why are you interested in my teeth?" I can't know for sure, but I think she may have been trying to flirt with me or something. How should a guy respond back to that? Sometimes I feel like I'm not sure what to say. Like what type of words do guys say back?

2. Another, I saw a girl at college (and she's hot). She says, "We should hang out sometime." Since I'm bad at testing the water, and knowing whether someone's indirectly testing the water and how to act/test the water back, what is the best thing to say/do in these situations?

I'm just looking for some help brushing up on my social skills.

Mike

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How to flirt with a guy i’ve never meet over facebook :)?

Smiles asked:

Be serious.

TJ

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