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Whats up with my social skills?

Joseph P asked:

For years I have been a very social person. I would have no problem flirting with girls, making new friends or just talking to someone. Recently those skills have not been so good. I have not been very social person recently and I am not sure why. Any idea?

P.S. I am a 14 year old male.

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Flirting is fun so do not take them too seriously. Most times, you're going to flirt with someone for a short time and then maybe talk to them ever again. If you are always going to flirt hoping to date or even marry the person you're flirting with, you will be very disappointed - and probably seems a bit desperate. Remember, you are just flirting.

A woman flirting with anyone in the world, while others are looking on.All coquette, but some are limited by shyness, and others by sense. Flirt women to maintain high reserves, men get somewhere.

The women know what flirting, and react differently to flirting communication than they do to the media. If you understand flirting, you can have conversations with the opposite sex and to be attracted because of you. If you do not get the flirting and how it works, then either have to be famous or be absolutely loaded for success with girls.

Learn how to flirt and then do this early on in their interactions with women to start the right tone. Think of flirting as playing a game. If you start talking with a single girl and say "Hi, you're well. You might have a boy, right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're not flirting. Moreover, if you say "Hi, I realize you are probably very shy due to the fact that not getting the attention of men ... so I thought to come here and pay a little attention ... "it is obvious that you are not serious. This is flirting. By the way, flirting is not just a girl tell jokes, or trying to be" cute ". One concept is cocky but that is simply a funny excellent way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a certain type of humor. It's so amazing to me that some men do not want to come across as GIMPS. It is obvious to me that just do not understand. So I'll explain in a different way ... If you know how talk about the right way women respond to you from the beginning with sexual interest and attraction. When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky yet fun, a form of adult verbal play, then come to the mind of a woman and forcing her to enter a kind of emotional state. One key to effective link "do it". In other words, you really have to practice so you can get a "feel" of how it works.

I think many men give up when dealing with a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "No thanks." Instead of simply following common practice is take it personally and decides to throw in the towel. But take my word for it ... Once you learn how to flirt effectively and communicate in the language of adults play not how well you think women respond to you.

Here's one of my favorite subjects to use when flirting, the subject is engaged and being in a relationship ... Bare in mind, I can have a conversation like this one with a woman he just met five minutes ago ... She: "I work in an office, and pay me" Me: "Excellent. I like a woman. Want to commit? We could buy the ring now. I need a woman with money. "She:" Well, that sounds like a plan "Me:" Mind you ... What believes it can support the both of us on his income? I really want to watch ... you know, keep an eye on the TV, etc. "She:" Oh, no ... I do not support. "Me:" Then the outside commitments. It's over between us. "She:" Can not break me! I'm not even your girlfriend. "Me:" That's another reason.

... Did you get what's going on here?

I'm taking a normal conversation topic of their work and their income and reorientation Conversation in a vain flirt, funny way thus creating a fun atmosphere and sexual tension (by suggesting the participation and Divisions about her not supporting me.)

If this does not make sense to you, then take it as a sign that you need more practice. Try it with maybe a waitress, bar cleaning or coworker. When you order something and she says: "Sorry, we do not have the menu, just say" Well, our relationship not working ... I'll have to break up with you. "Actually, you can say this in almost any situation where a woman is saying something you do not like, and it's fun. When you communicate like this, who is flirting and is initiating a different type of communication. And as soon as the woman who is speaking "compromises" that in this type of dialogue, Let the games begin! There are many ways to flirt, a woman looks at you and raises an eyebrow, look back with it and do the same ... only exaggerate. Remember, women can tell right away if you are flirting with them or not. If you are, and it is doing in a subtle and charming way you'll get amazing results.

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I am attracted to a very traditional Christian girl from work. Does she lke me?

Mark asked:

Hello people, hoping you could help me out here with this question.

I'm a single 25 year old. I am introverted for the most part, I am out going with people I know, but it's hard for me to make new friends. Consequently I am now 25 and have never dated.

5 weeks ago a lovely girl started where I am employed. I didn't have much to do with her in the first few weeks, but we would talk fairly often, to the point where other staff members began gossiping. I began to develop feelings for her and the week later we were assigned a group project that took us out of the office. For 5 days we worked side by side and chatted for hours and hours, consequently affecting our work.

When we returned to the office we stopped talking as frequently to discourage gossiping, but we began emailing each other frequently, usually 5 times an hour of which she initiated mostly.

The crux of the problem is this. She is very Christian and traditional. I am Catholic and I don't have a problem with her beliefs or the extent of them, in fact I respect this about her. I find her spirituality one of her most attractive qualities. I am a lapse Catholic, talking to her has made be reconsider God and Jesus more closely and consequently I have begun to strengthen my faith. I have started reading the Bible and I talk to God often. I have made an effort to not swear, not use God's name in vain and not pass judgement against others.

The week after our offsite project she asked to talk to me privately after work. We went to the local bar where we sat down and chatted. This was her forth week at work and the second that I had really known her. She asked me where I saw us going and I said that I had feelings for her but wasn't sure. She seemed upset that I had feelings for her and explained that we wouldn't be able to be togeather. She said that she has asked God to tell her the right person to marry, that it's wrong for her to have a relationship with someone who doesn't believe (even though I do) and that the Bible teaches against having a boyfriend girlfriend relationship and further mentioned that her parents were friends for years and then got engaged and subsequently married.

I was initially quite hurt, because I had only known her for two or so weeks and to be written off so early upset me. Anyway I walked her to the bus and saw her off.

During the conversation she mentioned somethings to be I thought were interesting. She had no friends, no proper friends. People have distanced themselves from her because of her rules and because she openly talks about Jesus and God. She said she's been hurt ini the past by this and I get the impression she doesn't want to be hurt again.

Anyway the following day she seemed nervous around me and would only speak to me in a casual way during a group conversation. I received no emails. At lunchtime I went into the kitchen to eat lunch, she was there with a few others. After about 30 minutes she got up to go outside for a walk. I watched her go and chased after her. She was surprised to see me and thought that I wouldn't want to talk to her again. We talked a little about last night and she reiterated that she was confused and was sorry for some of the things she said.

Everything was fine for the next few days, the emails resumed and she talked to me more freely. We even went out for dinner as a group where we sat next to each other for 4 hours just chatting away. I dropped her home afterwards.

She told me during the drive that doing things along togeather constituted dating and there were certain rules, such as getting parents permission. She understands that we are currently just friends but the perception from her parents would indicate otherwise, and while she is free to make her own choices, said her parents points of view carried weight with her. I said that's understandable and that we can just do things as a group if it makes her more comfortable.

I have been open to her about my feelings and why I like her. I said I treasure every moment we spend together, that I find her very spirtual, cultured and sweet. She said I was a nice person and thanked me for the kindness I had shown her over the last few weeks and said I was very sensitive and that she liked that about me.

Anyway yesterday at work everything was going as normal, we were trading emails and laughing and what not. She invited me out at lunch, she was going down to the local Christian book store and wanted me to come. I said yes and walked with her. We returned to the office and ate lunch togeather. Later in the afternoon our emails again started becoming serious. She thanked me again for taking her out to dinner (with the group) and said she really enjoyed herself. Said she wanted to do things with me as a group and needed time to sort through her confusion.

I again reiterated that I had feelings, take the time you need and that doing things as a group was fine by me. I also said that any relationship takes risk and that everyone goes through this. She responded with mentioning being hurt in the past by people, saying real life was not Hollywood and that she just needed my paitence.

That was the last words exchanged on the matter, we had to go home, she had a bus to catch.

I am not sure if she likes me or not. She certainly likes to talk to me and spend time with me, but I think there are things about me she can't accept from a religous perspective.

Do you think she likes me? Can someone give me advice on how to deal with this. I am happy to be paitent, but obviously in the long-run there is a limit to how long I can put my life on hold.

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Whats up with my social skills?

Joseph P asked:

For years I have been a very social person. I would have no problem flirting with girls, making new friends or just talking to someone. Recently those skills have not been so good. I have not been very social person recently and I am not sure why. Any idea?

P.S. I am a 14 year old male.

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Are social skills, conversation skills, communication skills, flirting skills, all natural and instinctive?

MovieFanatic06 asked:

Is everyone, or most people in general, born with the social skills, conversation skills, communication skills, flirting skills, in order to make small talk, start a conversation with someone, and make friends? and flirt in order to get a date, in order to get a boyfriend/girlfriend, etc.?
Because other people make it look so easy, they have the best social lives, they have a lot of friends, they have the life of the party, they always have something to do in their daily life that involves socializing with people and friends, other than their own family.
The reason why is because all the times in my life I have made friends, it was because the people that I became friends with, they were the ones that initiated the friendship with me, they were the ones that started talking to me first, they were the ones that asked me to hang out, overall, they initiated everything in the beginning. These were mostly guys, because right now all of my friends are guys, not because I am ***.
Anyway, are all of these talking skills, social skills, flirting skills, conversation skills, communication skills, etc. All natural? are people born with these skills? did it never take these people practice? Did they know how to start a conversation and make small talk, make friends, flirt and get dates, boyfriends/girlfriends, casual sex, etc., all from day one?
Everytime I have taken the initiative to make new friends, socialize and talk to people, just to make friends, period, it always backfired. Whenever I asked the person if they wanted to hang out and chill, like go see a movie, they let me have their phone number, but they never answered or called me back, the only time they answered their phone was when I called them the first time, which was understandable, because they did not know my number yet until they saw it on Caller ID. Seriously, I was just being myself, being friendly, these were all from guys only, because I was just looking for friends, this happend to me like 2 or 3 times in my entire life, when I took the initiative to make new friends, but the person never called me back or answered their phone.
Also, every girl I have approached, talked to, and asked out in my entire life, rejected me!!!!!! I don't know what I did wrong. I have always been single, and I **** it!!!
Am I going to get any answers to this question?

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