Michael asked:

So this is embarrassing but I'm 21 and have never had a girlfriend. I dont have any friends, I did in High school but lost contact after that. Basically I have not social contacts right now. I work in a store and have been trying to work on flirting skills but it feels like slow going. When it seems like I'm getting somewhere she leaves or I just seize up. I'm trying to work past my extreme shyness but it is really hard.

I not religious so churches are out unless I want to start out lying. I don't drink either so don't really like the idea of a bar...

Any suggestions?

country_musicdj asked:

As a catholic young adult i find my faith in my religion seems to shock people away from dating due to my stance on *** before marriage and was wondering if others out there were having the same kind of problems and if anyone has any advice. I also feel the catholic church doesnt have enough resources for catholic singles in the 20-35 range most churches have older singles groups like 40+ and they have younger groups like youth groups there just doesnt seem to be a lot of groups for the out of college crowd. I guess we should just go to the bars.