Assalamu Alaikum brothers & sisters!
Can you please advice me, in light of the Quran?
My aunt, wife of one of my deceased uncles, has a little 4 year old son-my family is Iranian Muslim.
She is dating an Italian agnostic man-from a Catholic background, whom she met online, she has even gone twice to Italy to visit him-without any mahram!She didn't tell this to anyone in the family, goodness knows what she did in Italy! 
This Italian Catholic man is also a widower-he has a little daughter! My aunt's son & this little girl have become extremely good friends, they already consider each other brother & sister!
This man has also visited Iran but when we asked my aunt about this man, she said that its none of our business & we shouldn't **** in!
We met the man, asked him to revert to Islam, but he says that he considers all religion bull**** & Islam the biggest bull****!Astaghfirullah!!!!
What should we do? Can another uncle of mine, inherit this aunt ie marry her? All my uncles are married, but bigamy is clearly allowed in Quran right?
After all the Holy Quran clearly says that flagrantly lewd women can be inherited & going off to Italy on her own to meet her lover without bothering to infor the family & wanting to marry a man who considers Islam bull**** is being flagrantly lewd right?
My aunt has a PHD in Botany btw, & is a Professor!
4:19 O ye who believe! It is not lawful for you forcibly to inherit the women (of your deceased kinsmen), nor (that) ye should put constraint upon them that ye may take away a part of that which ye have given them, unless they be guilty of flagrant lewdness.
So will it be right that an Uncle of mine marry her against her will, stop her travelling freely as & where she wishes & takes away whatever moeny the family gave her-as the Quran advices?
Thanks in advance.
@EVERYONE!PLEASE ADVICE IN LIGHT OF THE QURAN, NOT YOUR OWN VIEWS!
@Sweettooth:here are the verses, from Yusuf Ali & Pickthall:
004.019
YUSUFALI: O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may Take away part of the dower ye have given them,-except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good.
PICKTHAL: O ye who believe! It is not lawful for you forcibly to inherit the women (of your deceased kinsmen), nor (that) ye should put constraint upon them that ye may take away a part of that which ye have given them, unless they be guilty of flagrant lewdness. But consort with them in kindness, for if ye **** them it may happen that ye **** a thing wherein Allah hath placed much good.
See? Its allowed if the woman is flargantly lewd!
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