zweetchekz asked:
I am 29 years old and recently divorced. I have not been on a date in over 8 years. I used to be a big flirt, but now I feel like a retard and don’t know what to say. How do you pick your self back up and start over? What is the first date like after the divorce?
#1 by on July 7th, 2009
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Mike
whatever you do, don’t try….
if you book them, they will come…….
#2 by Mary on July 9th, 2009
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It takes time but just like riding a bicycle you never forget how, just start off with baby steps, remember you have to crawl before you can walk
#3 by Brad on July 13th, 2009
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Mike
Maybe sign up for an online dating site. You can work yourself back into it slowly at your own pace. I’m sure you will recover your charm soon enough.
#4 by on July 13th, 2009
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Tia
Just be yourself and things will be fine. It is one of those things that really takes you being confident about who you are and what is inside of you. If you stress too much, it will show. First date? Nervous and exciting all at the same time. You wind up feeling like a kid again, but as the evening goes on, you usually become more confident and relaxed. I am sure you will do just fine, sweetie!
#5 by on July 16th, 2009
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Joe
you’re female,thats all you need!
#6 by on July 19th, 2009
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Tia
Remember not to call your date by your ex-husband’s name. Some divorced women do that.
#7 by Mary on July 19th, 2009
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Just relax and be yourself, you’ll do great. Take your time though.
#8 by on July 22nd, 2009
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relax,show must go on,just always hang out,and u will find what u looking for…
#9 by on July 22nd, 2009
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am divorce also let work on them together hope to hear from you
#10 by on July 25th, 2009
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damn, smitty took my answer.
#11 by on July 26th, 2009
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yep it will be weird . but after the first say to your self i am me do a little dance ( in your head ) and have a good time i you want i can help out practice but your buying (the last parts a joke we’ll do 50/50)
#12 by on July 26th, 2009
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Dawn
One way to get your skills back is to practice. they say practice makes perfect. If you want you can practice on me. Email me sometime I’ll listen.